I do. (forever and ever - yes?)

I reckon saying 'I do' is not as simple as it may sound.


A few of my girl cousins are already engaged and I am elated. It has been a while since we host a wedding. Being engaged is to announce to relatives (think friends do not really care - they still take it that you're a couple) that ' we are officially together' - Some would want a grand affair while others prefer a simple one. Either or it is still the same. Let me congratulate my dear cousins namely; Nurjanah, Nazreen, Kamariah and last but not least this coming 5th Dec - Fadilah. Must go shop for kebayas already. Can't wait.


I would want to get engaged first. Not that I have any candidates. I think being engaged will kinda bring out your other half true colors - not that I do not trust the person I am going to be with (in near future - nope; I am still available though- haha)Its an eye-opener thing. At least, if you think he is not the one during the engagement phase at least you can still split up and your status is still SINGLE not DIVORCEE. (!!)

Have seen many cases; engaged for donkey-years finally got married - got a child (or more) and just divorced with 3 years? Imagine the amount of money wasted just like that. Some have not even finish settling loans with the financial institutions. When things like this happens, they'll say 'jodoh tak panjang or dah takde jodoh' Did you hear anyone blame themselves for this? NEVER. They never want to think about their vows (if any) or the times they've wasted on each other.


On the other hand, I have also seen couples who are blissfully married in the name of love and trust. I am happy that most of them are people whom I had known personally. All shared their bits and pieces of unhappiness too but managed to over calm them. That is maybe why I wanted an engagement first. A lot of others have also tell me - engagements are waste of time.


I shall leave it to fate. Pasrah.

PS - Am checking out Tiffany & Co...already drooling..looking at the pretty rings..(with PRETTY price tags too...)



Its a Lucida Tiffany Engagement Rings collection. Its just a dream. I also like this one...


Schlumberger Rope

fret not, future candidates..I am reasonable.
**how i wish** InsyaAllah.